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Ecstatic Dancing Lets Me Channel Elaine Benes
Press Ecstatic dancing has been around for ages, but the latest iteration is all about shimmying, shaking, and sashaying with abandon, especially when you feel anxious, disconnected, or depressed. “The idea is to allow your body to move freely and expressively to the...
Is Everyone Out Here Lying To Their Therapist?
Press According to Carrie Torn, LCSW, a licensed therapist in North Carolina, there are multiple reasons why people might lie to their therapist. “One is that once we say something out loud, it can feel more real and true,” she tells Bustle. In that case, it's easier...
The Enneagram Compatibility Pairings That (Supposedly) Make the Best Matches
PressHow Does Enneagram Compatibility Work? "First and foremost," Carrie Torn, LCSW, explains, "knowing your own Enneagram type allows you to gain insight into why you do what you do…, our patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving, and, perhaps more importantly, the...
“Glimmers” Can Bring You A Mini Spike Of Joy — Here’s How
Press “By training your mind to look for glimmers, you are appreciating the simple joys and moments of everyday life,” says Carrie Torn, LCSW, a licensed therapist in North Carolina. “You often can develop a greater appreciation for the present moment, relationships,...
Why You Should Go Out When You Want to Stay In (Again), According to a Psychiatrist
PressIs going out good for anxiety? Carrie Torn, LCSW, is a psychotherapist based in North Carolina. She says that often, the more we avoid the thing we are anxious about, the worse it gets. “If we choose not to go out due to our anxiety, we are reinforcing the...
Practicing Self-Compassion: How the “Golden Rule” Gets it Wrong
How the Golden Rule gets it wrong... Most of us grew up learning the infamous ???????????????????????? ????????????????: “Treat others how you want to be treated”. It's a great concept, yet we never learned perhaps an even more important rule: how to treat ourselves...
Well + wise: No such thing as perfect
PressLocal therapist Carrie Torn, who specializes in helping high achievers who struggle with anxiety and burnout, weighs in: “A piece of perfectionism that we tend to miss is the underlying fear of what other people think of us and a desire for approval. We strive...
What To Do When Imposter Syndrome Creeps In
PressBe kind to yourself Carrie Torn, a licensed clinical social worker, pointed to the importance of practicing self-love. “Rather than relying on criticism as a motivator, self-compassion enables us to be resilient,” she said. Additionally, Torn noted that...
Is People Pleasing a trauma response?
As with most things, ????????'???? ???????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????? ???????? ????????????????????????????. I've been seeing a lot of information recently about people pleasing being a trauma response, and while it CAN be, it can also develop...





